As dearly loved children
Lee April 14, 2015

Have you ever read something you’ve read many times before and suddenly seen it in a way you never have before?

It happened to me the other day when I was searching for Ephesians 5:2 in my old NIV1984 Bible. As I searched for it my eyes strayed to the previous verse, “Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children and live a life of love …” (Eph 5:1-2).

Immediately two images came into my mind—first, a small child wearing a pink tulle skirt and her mother’s high-heeled shoes and then another child with furrowed brow, carefully directing his plastic lawnmower along the tracks left by his father as he mowed the lawn.

Image of small girl walking on mother's feet
Photo by Keoni K|

My first thought was to dismiss them. They seemed inappropriate somehow and (oh, dear) so politically incorrect! But then I realised they were true images because they happen all the time. When you are young, imitating others is as natural as breathing.

Some people say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, but for the young, imitation is simply sincerity. They do not understand flattery because they lack guile and sophistication, and they want nothing more than to identify with someone important in their world.

Children imitate their parents not only because they want to be like them—they want to be connected to them too. For a child, imitation is an authentic expression of love.

Do I love God that way? Do I imitate my heavenly Father by living a life of love, safe in the knowledge that I am dearly loved by him? It’s a simple idea but, if I’m honest, my attempts at following his example uncomfortably resemble the child teetering precariously in high heels and the other mowing grass with an ineffectual toy.

What a relief it is then to remember that I am a child of God with much yet to learn and many mistakes yet to make, that I have a Father to imitate and I am dearly loved.

 Featured image: Photo by Laurie Heath |



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